Another Women's Day!!!!!!

Today is Women's Day and when whole world is celebrating even i would like to manifest my views on this very special day.
For most of us Women's day is just another day where people greet each other through chain of sms or emails and for remaining it is a day dedicated to women.
Of course it is, but this day is lot more than that.To celebrate the womanhood do u think just one day is enough?
And do you really think that women are made to feel privileged or treated special on this occasion?
Every year number of women who celebrate this day are increasing, but Domestic Violence,female foeticide rate , Psychological and moral harrasment still subsist.
Then why is it exactly celebrated for?As a women are you contributing something towards it instead partying on this day.?
If it is celebrated to showcase the spirit of womenhood then can someone describe what it exactly means?
I am not against the women's day but i strongly believe that one special day is not enough to acknowledge the world who we are.
Women has attained the heights of excellence in diverse fields, also she is sturdy competitor to men in all the departments.
Yet there are number of women who are still struggling to overcome the darkness of their life and are ignorant of presence of light.
Why should they?When that would come to an end?does Women's day owe anything to them? does it?
yes it does...it should give an inspiration for all those feeble women to prove the world that even they can conquer the world with their abilities.
It should make them realise their strength which can drive the world to respect women all 365 days but not just a single Day.
Celebrating Women's day are we craving to establish our Identity though claiming that we are Strong??

Finally my take on what women is:

Ancestors say that she is the root cause for wars in the ancient times...but i say that she is the cause for 2 great epics to be written.
Thinkers say that she cant think by herself,but I say that she thinks for everyone except for herself..
Geniuses say that girls are never understood but i say that it is because u never want to understand.
Lovers say that she doesn't know to love but i say that she doesn't know to express Love.
Husbands say that bearing the girl for lifetime is difficult but i say that even billion lives without a girl is unimaginable.
Losers say that Women makes life hell and i say that women presence makes even hell to be called as 'Heaven'.
Guys say that girls are sensitive , i say that u would have not been on this earth if she was insensitive.
Intellects say that women has no Identity but i say that she doesn't need one as she already has it.
Scholars say that she doesn't need education and i say that "yes it is true!!!" because it is she who need to educate the world.
Eminent say that she cannot be Famous but i say that she is famous but she doesn't claim to be One.
Politicians say she cannot rule the world but i say that Women are already ruling the world without being paid for it.
And Finally Men who say that there is NO Wo-men with out "Men" i want to say that "men" are already part of WoMen and they exist if Women do.

Cheers,
~D

Love You Dravid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know it's late to react...but i cant stop myself devoting a post in my blog to Sugar Candy Of Cricket "Rahul Dravid".
When the whole world is commending and admiring Dravid for his game,media  recollecting and refreshing his score card or number of runs in his journey of Cricket,i would like to share something else which dravid is famous for!!.....there are group of people in India who will miss him a lot than any other cricket lovers.And yes, of course i am proud to claim that I am one among them.
Since the time i knew cricket i knew Dravid!!!!!No, It would be inappropriate to say that because i knew Dravid first and Cricket next.Mostly Cricket is esteemed to be Men's game and there are less number of ladies who find it appealing and follow it religiously.And yes, i am one  of them but to me God was Dravid!!!!
It is proven fact that He is the first cricketer who has more number of female followers than the male followers.I have seen many girls liking/watching the Cricket reason being Dravid.He added that "X factor" to absolute Men's Game of Cricket.The grace with which he strikes the bat,that cute dimple smile after hitting the shot, endurance which pulls the team to victory side,modesty and plainness in every situation are all Adorable.All these factors would urge any girl to fall for him and yes who wants to miss watching him on the crease.He was the dream boy for millions and I still remember my mom watching cricket along with me only when Dravid was in Action irrespective of india winning or losing...No wonder their wish would have been to get son/son-in-law like him. That's the charisma he has and being adding to the cricket.Above all, if there is any player who plays most for the team and less for himself that would be undoubtedly Rahul Dravid.Yes he is the Great wall of India.Such Strong who can sustain all the controversies against him to save the team and pulled himself real hard when team really needed him.When it's the question of game of Cricket it is always the players who hit the shots take all the fame and of course popularity. But to Dravid it was always his technique that he believes in which would never fail rather than short term "HIT" formula.It Din't fetch him much craze or hype from his fans though, but has always helped the team for the good.And i am damn sure, no one would disagree with me if i say that Dravid is the "God of Technique Cricket".He might not hit Helicopter Shot,he might not hit six in every ball but all he knows is to play the right shot at the right time.I wonder what it needs for a player to stand in the crease for such a longtime with dedicated focus and concentration with one and only one aim "Make Team Win".He is the only one who can flip the game from losing side to winning side.Now when there's News that He is retiring from the Game, i felt Nostalgic.I am birdbrained or inexperienced to talk about the future of Cricket without him or about his game,i leave it to experts.What I can say is we female fans are surely going to miss Him.
Cricket No wonder will still Exist but That Unique Charm which attracts ladies to watch the cricket,and the charming personality which would make every girl go Mad about him and that dimple smile which makes every girl fall for him is Lost for ever.Ladies following cricket would become less because he is the one Unique and no one can replace him.
Along with me, whole world of Cricket is Going to Miss watching Dravid Play.
LOVE U SIR......U might retire from the Game of Cricket but we will never retire from loving you.

~D

What it takes to be Beautiful!!!!!!!!!

What is this beauty all about? Is it simply the way you look?
In that case u would seldom find beautiful girls in this world...isn't it??
Let me tell you beauty is more way than that...it's not simply how beautiful u are born on this earth...
Every women has got a Pretty face but some dont even bother to glance at it while some don't identify it.
Me being women sometimes seriously wonder why they don't realize that they are the most beautiful ladies i have ever seen?
If I say this to them they simply ignore my comments with a statement "Are U kidding on Me?"
Another weird answer which i get to listen is "I am not that much beauty conscious and there are many more things to concentrate on"
That was an Awwww moment for me....I mean what is this so called "beauty conscious"...
Taking care of your self and spending some time on looking pretty will make you beauty conscious????
BTW what is wrong if you are beauty conscious.....when u have some thing precious u have to be conscious about it...
U are conscious about ur boyfriend,u are conscious about your work then what's wrong in this??
How does giving some time in making urself presentable to the world will obstruct ur career goals or aims....this one is unsolvable riddle of lifetime for me....;)
We as a humans have kind of a feeling ....we entertain only eye pleasing or good looking things around us then why not us....
I think even we should be pleasing to someone's eyes or atleast to people who approach us.
No matter what heights you go.....first thing which pours confidence in you is your looks and the way you present urself.
Let me be specific here..."Looks" that doesn't mean that you should be so called "Gorgeous or Beautiful"
when you look urself in the mirror U should feel that u are the most beautiful girl in this world.
That feeling will make u feel proud of what you are.
In this competitive world where everything is measured in terms of time...first impresssion always is of high priority.
No matter they would appreciate you for ur work or talent but what matters is u have to get that opportunity to showcase ur talent ...
And let me tell you ur confidence will boost up like a rocket when you know that u are the most beautiful girl on this earth.
Try it out !!! it works.....u will never be hesitated to go in the crowd,u will never be afraid to speak in public,
You will never take back step when it comes to expressing your views to your team members or friends.

So what i would like to say is :
Women has this wonderful gift called "Beauty",realise it.
It is as precious as you are,preserve it.
It just need some gentle care and your attention,nourish it.
Dont conceal it in your cupboards to make it rust, reveal it.
All women are born beautiful,it is only YOU who Identifies it .

Cheers :) :)